Just a short update from yesterday's visit.
Ty and Maxx were chasing each other and Ty was going to get the better of Maxx so he jumped on my lap and I said "you're such a Mommy's boy". Ty didn't like this so he chased Maxx off so he could be "Mommy's boy". Maxx then announced he'd be "Daddy's boy"
It is really fun to just watch them play together and see what they come up with.
There is a very large doll in the room. She stands about 3 feet tall and wears a fancy white dress. Ty decided she needed to take a nap so he set her on the floor, covered he with a towel and gave her a pillow. Maxx got his favorite rabbit and laid it on a book and covered it with a babywipe. A few times Ty would tell his doll "I told you to lie down" and he'd tap her on the stomach. Maxx would then to the same with his rabbit. Ty is a bit bossy with the doll. The translator commented that he may grow up to be a strict husband. I wonder if he is re-enacting situations in his group. I tried to get him to explain his day using the doll and he wouldn't. We learned after he gets up he washes his face and brushes his teeth.
Today Ty made a "machine gun" He took Randy's tie and held it against the bowl of a spoon and then used the handle of the spoon as a gun barrel. I guess the tie is the bullets. He thought it was great to make his gun sounds. I enjoyed that he was being creative. For the record, it's not politically incorrect to play guns in Taraz.
Tonight is the Rotary Fundraiser. This is a clip from a project the Almaty Rotaries did with 2 US based Rotary Clubs to help a Kazakh Orphanage.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPaPqemLoRo
Marcia
Saturday, February 26, 2011
Friday, February 25, 2011
Surprise, Surprise
Yesterday, we were supposed to learn the date the judge was going to give his decision. Last night, I was told this morning. This afternoon I was told later this afternoon. Tonight I was told Wednesday.
I'm going to turn off the computer and enjoy my weekend in Almaty.
For those of you that are Facebook friends, I'm not feeling creative enough to write a new post and just copied and pasted my text.
Marcia
I'm going to turn off the computer and enjoy my weekend in Almaty.
For those of you that are Facebook friends, I'm not feeling creative enough to write a new post and just copied and pasted my text.
Marcia
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Post Court Post
Good news: The witnesses all appeared and gave testimony favorable to us.
??? news: The judge did not announce when he will give his decision. He said he'd let us know tomorrow.
Marcia
??? news: The judge did not announce when he will give his decision. He said he'd let us know tomorrow.
Marcia
Pre-Court Post
I had a morning visit with the boys so our Coordinator will have the car available for court.
Today was just one of those frustrating days. The car arrives late. It's cold outside. We arrive at the babyhouse to learn that it is "Birthday Party Day" and we can't use the music room and Maxx won't be able to visit during my first hour.
We were told we could bond in one of the rooms outside the boys' groups. When we got upstairs I was able to see the kids in Ty's group playing. Some of them had legos and others had toy revolvers. They were shiny plastic without the orange ring to indicate they are a toy. I chuckled to myself as now I know where the boys came up with the idea to "shoot" me.
Ty comes out and grabs his juice cup. Maxx's worker came out and asked him why he was using a "baby cup" as he's not a baby. I smiled (that insincere smile I have perfected here) and explained it's a "spill-proof" cup.
We were told we couldn't meet outside the groups and had to go to the "mother-child" room. This used to be a room we had our meetings in last year. Now it is a storage room. We literally had a 4 x 6 foot area for Ty and I to "play".
Luckily, I brought the computer and we SKYPED with Randy. After the connection failed, I let Ty watch the horse video and showed him video of his dancing. He was very interested in watching himself.
Ty finished his juice so I gave him some water and was informed that one of the "doctors" complained I am giving the boys too much to drink as they go to the bathroom too much and that's a sign of a "disease". I worry about parasites and giardia as the water supply in KZ is not clean so I bring bottled water and juice. The translator admitted this "doctor" likes to find things to complain about and especially with the foreign families.
I accidently got water with gas today and Ty was surprised. I don't think he ever drank something carbonated and giggled as the bubbles tickled his mouth.
When the translator went to get Maxx, she was told his group hadn't even performed yet but we could watch. One boy in his group had a birthday in February. The children did some singing and speaking. When it was Maxx's turn to speak, he appeared shy and went to his caregiver. It turns out the girl who went before him spoke his part and he didn't know what to do.
The kids also played musical chairs. Maxx won in his group and the top two finishers in each game have to give each other a hug and a kiss.
After the presentation, Maxx went to his room to get changed and Ty and I moved all our things to the music room. Things were a bit frustrating as Ty had his snacks earlier and Maxx got his later. Maxx thought that Ty didn't get any snacks.
I'm going to go shopping with the translator in a little while. As I posted on Facebook I am going to a formal event in Almaty on Saturday so I need "formal wear". This is good as we will shop during the assigned court time and I should be with the translator when the call comes with the outcome of the hearing.
Take care,
Marcia
Today was just one of those frustrating days. The car arrives late. It's cold outside. We arrive at the babyhouse to learn that it is "Birthday Party Day" and we can't use the music room and Maxx won't be able to visit during my first hour.
We were told we could bond in one of the rooms outside the boys' groups. When we got upstairs I was able to see the kids in Ty's group playing. Some of them had legos and others had toy revolvers. They were shiny plastic without the orange ring to indicate they are a toy. I chuckled to myself as now I know where the boys came up with the idea to "shoot" me.
Ty comes out and grabs his juice cup. Maxx's worker came out and asked him why he was using a "baby cup" as he's not a baby. I smiled (that insincere smile I have perfected here) and explained it's a "spill-proof" cup.
We were told we couldn't meet outside the groups and had to go to the "mother-child" room. This used to be a room we had our meetings in last year. Now it is a storage room. We literally had a 4 x 6 foot area for Ty and I to "play".
Luckily, I brought the computer and we SKYPED with Randy. After the connection failed, I let Ty watch the horse video and showed him video of his dancing. He was very interested in watching himself.
Ty finished his juice so I gave him some water and was informed that one of the "doctors" complained I am giving the boys too much to drink as they go to the bathroom too much and that's a sign of a "disease". I worry about parasites and giardia as the water supply in KZ is not clean so I bring bottled water and juice. The translator admitted this "doctor" likes to find things to complain about and especially with the foreign families.
I accidently got water with gas today and Ty was surprised. I don't think he ever drank something carbonated and giggled as the bubbles tickled his mouth.
When the translator went to get Maxx, she was told his group hadn't even performed yet but we could watch. One boy in his group had a birthday in February. The children did some singing and speaking. When it was Maxx's turn to speak, he appeared shy and went to his caregiver. It turns out the girl who went before him spoke his part and he didn't know what to do.
The kids also played musical chairs. Maxx won in his group and the top two finishers in each game have to give each other a hug and a kiss.
After the presentation, Maxx went to his room to get changed and Ty and I moved all our things to the music room. Things were a bit frustrating as Ty had his snacks earlier and Maxx got his later. Maxx thought that Ty didn't get any snacks.
I'm going to go shopping with the translator in a little while. As I posted on Facebook I am going to a formal event in Almaty on Saturday so I need "formal wear". This is good as we will shop during the assigned court time and I should be with the translator when the call comes with the outcome of the hearing.
Take care,
Marcia
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
Backpack Boys
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Even though it was snowing this morning I decided to venture to the bazaar and get backpacks for the boys. As I have mentioned before, the bazaar is quite the adventure. Nothing ever seems to be the same. My last visit I saw a booth that had small backpacks and thought they'd be nice for the boys.
I found two and when I got back to the hotel, I packed some of the boy's new clothes, their snacks and some toys in each bag. Ty has purple (NOT VIKING PURPLE) trim on his backpack and Maxx's has blue. I wanted the boys to try on a few remaining pieces of clothing I brought them.
Both boys have colds and were a bit lethargic for the first 5 minutes of the visit. I explained they each have their own bag with their things and I want them to be able to carry some things in their backpacks when we go home to see Daddy. After they had the snacks, the translator quizzed the boys to see if they remembered who had which backpack. Ty commented that the backpacks are "Mommy's". He was pleased to know that is was his.
After his snack, Ty emptied his backpack and saw two pairs of jeans and immediately handed one to Maxx. I explained they both were for him to try on. He was a bit hesitant when we told him to take off his long underwear but he did. The first pair of pants was too big and he was a little upset so I told him to try on the other pair. He then quickly put on a new shirt and his jacket. He was quite impressed with himself as he put the backpack on and walked around.
Maxx decided to postpone his snack and put on his clothes. He would stomp his feet and giggle once I put the new shirt on him. Like Ty, he had to put on the backpack and walk around.
It took a while to get them to take off their backpacks to play. We went through our books and Ty started to count objects in one of the books. He can count to 10 now with minimal assistance. Maxx listens and counts to four.
The boys spent a stretch of time pretending to talk on the phone and making up words to yell at each other and giggle. Then they decided to put the hoods up on their coats because it was "raining" inside. Towards the end of the visit, Ty was jumping around a lot and literally lost his pants. Maxx's pants should fit him fine.
Since this was near the end of the visit, I got Ty into his old pants and he ran to the end of the room and announced he didn't want to take off his new shirt and jacket. I decided to help Maxx change while Ty thought about it. I played "this little piggy" when helping Ty with his socks and he's very ticklish. In fairness, I played the game again with Maxx. Maxx is prone to getting wound up and this launched him into silliness. When I was trying to get his long underwear on, he jumped up and decided to shake his barely covered backside for us. Then he decided, he would bob his head around to make it hard to put his old shirt on.
Luckily, when both boys were dressed in the babyhouse clothes, they packed their new clothes and their toys into their backpacks.
Our witness hearing will be at 2:00PM tomorrow. I will not be attending the hearing as the Coordinators mentioned I may be a distraction to the witnesses. After the hearing, the judge will let us know when he plans on issuing a decision.
Marcia
Even though it was snowing this morning I decided to venture to the bazaar and get backpacks for the boys. As I have mentioned before, the bazaar is quite the adventure. Nothing ever seems to be the same. My last visit I saw a booth that had small backpacks and thought they'd be nice for the boys.
I found two and when I got back to the hotel, I packed some of the boy's new clothes, their snacks and some toys in each bag. Ty has purple (NOT VIKING PURPLE) trim on his backpack and Maxx's has blue. I wanted the boys to try on a few remaining pieces of clothing I brought them.
Both boys have colds and were a bit lethargic for the first 5 minutes of the visit. I explained they each have their own bag with their things and I want them to be able to carry some things in their backpacks when we go home to see Daddy. After they had the snacks, the translator quizzed the boys to see if they remembered who had which backpack. Ty commented that the backpacks are "Mommy's". He was pleased to know that is was his.
After his snack, Ty emptied his backpack and saw two pairs of jeans and immediately handed one to Maxx. I explained they both were for him to try on. He was a bit hesitant when we told him to take off his long underwear but he did. The first pair of pants was too big and he was a little upset so I told him to try on the other pair. He then quickly put on a new shirt and his jacket. He was quite impressed with himself as he put the backpack on and walked around.
Maxx decided to postpone his snack and put on his clothes. He would stomp his feet and giggle once I put the new shirt on him. Like Ty, he had to put on the backpack and walk around.
It took a while to get them to take off their backpacks to play. We went through our books and Ty started to count objects in one of the books. He can count to 10 now with minimal assistance. Maxx listens and counts to four.
The boys spent a stretch of time pretending to talk on the phone and making up words to yell at each other and giggle. Then they decided to put the hoods up on their coats because it was "raining" inside. Towards the end of the visit, Ty was jumping around a lot and literally lost his pants. Maxx's pants should fit him fine.
Since this was near the end of the visit, I got Ty into his old pants and he ran to the end of the room and announced he didn't want to take off his new shirt and jacket. I decided to help Maxx change while Ty thought about it. I played "this little piggy" when helping Ty with his socks and he's very ticklish. In fairness, I played the game again with Maxx. Maxx is prone to getting wound up and this launched him into silliness. When I was trying to get his long underwear on, he jumped up and decided to shake his barely covered backside for us. Then he decided, he would bob his head around to make it hard to put his old shirt on.
Luckily, when both boys were dressed in the babyhouse clothes, they packed their new clothes and their toys into their backpacks.
Our witness hearing will be at 2:00PM tomorrow. I will not be attending the hearing as the Coordinators mentioned I may be a distraction to the witnesses. After the hearing, the judge will let us know when he plans on issuing a decision.
Marcia
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
Acey Boy and Chewing Gum
The boys love to say "Acey boy" when they look at their photo book. Today Ty took a stuffed Scooby Doo dog and announced it was "Acey boy". Then he tried to ride it like a pony. After the novelty of that wore off, he laid Acey boy on his side and covered him with a towel and told him to sleep.
Maxx is a very slow eater and was sitting at his pretend dining table while this went on. Ty then joined us and I told them when we eat at our house, Ace is going to come to the table and want food. Immediately, Ty said "we will feed him". So I explained dogs eat dog food not people food.
I told them that Ace tried to sleep in Maxx's bed yesterday. Randy took the front rail of the bed so Ace assumed that was his new dog bed. The boys were amused by that story.
I wanted to see if the boys could chew gum and properly dispose of it. I explained they needed to chew it and give it to me when they were done. They couldn't swallow it. At one point, Ty tried to give the gum to "Acey boy". They also told me I needed to give them a full stick - not a half. And of course what happened? They swallowed the gum when they were done. Maxx told me that it was good and said "it's here" and pointed at his throat. I pointed to his tummy and told him he'd get a tummy ache if he did that a lot. So no gum tomorrow.
Maxx is still into his pretend kitchen and cooking. He created a pretend sink out of a toy truck and would make spraying noises as he washed his dishes.
Marcia
Maxx is a very slow eater and was sitting at his pretend dining table while this went on. Ty then joined us and I told them when we eat at our house, Ace is going to come to the table and want food. Immediately, Ty said "we will feed him". So I explained dogs eat dog food not people food.
I told them that Ace tried to sleep in Maxx's bed yesterday. Randy took the front rail of the bed so Ace assumed that was his new dog bed. The boys were amused by that story.
I wanted to see if the boys could chew gum and properly dispose of it. I explained they needed to chew it and give it to me when they were done. They couldn't swallow it. At one point, Ty tried to give the gum to "Acey boy". They also told me I needed to give them a full stick - not a half. And of course what happened? They swallowed the gum when they were done. Maxx told me that it was good and said "it's here" and pointed at his throat. I pointed to his tummy and told him he'd get a tummy ache if he did that a lot. So no gum tomorrow.
Maxx is still into his pretend kitchen and cooking. He created a pretend sink out of a toy truck and would make spraying noises as he washed his dishes.
Marcia
Monday, February 21, 2011
Our Chef
On Sunday, the boys were able to SKYPE with Randy. As part of the call, he took them on a tour of the house so they could see their bedroom and other rooms in the house. Randy put doggie and piggie on their beds so they were excited to see that and Maxx saw that he now has a "big boy" bed like Ty. Randy removed the crib rail from his bed.
Maxx is fascinated with pretend cooking and meals. For the past two days, he's set up a meal at a desk where he assigns us places to sit. Today, Ty decided to eat all the food. This led to a game where the boys tried to see who could pretend eat the fastest. They will even "wash" the dishes with babywipes.
Unfortunately, Maxx is not very careful getting in and out of the chair so I taught the boys about picnics and we had one on the floor.
When we started our visit, I tried to get Ty to count his crackers. He told me he'd do it "tomorrow". Later in the visit I pulled a hand full of coins out of my wallet and put them in a box. He readily counted to 10 with minimal prompting.
Ty was a little upset that I didn't bring the computer so he could watch the video of his group. I posted a short video of him dancing to Facebook but I don't think it has uploaded entirely as my Facebook account has been very slow these past few days. If you are one of my facebook friends and see it, please let me know it went through.
In the meantime, Ty decided that we would be "bye bye". He put on my gloves and then would run across the room as fast as he could to push me over. Then Maxx started to tell him to "get Mommy" I am beat. It's pretty hard to catch a 4 year old running at full speed after the first dozen times.
Take care,
Marcia
Maxx is fascinated with pretend cooking and meals. For the past two days, he's set up a meal at a desk where he assigns us places to sit. Today, Ty decided to eat all the food. This led to a game where the boys tried to see who could pretend eat the fastest. They will even "wash" the dishes with babywipes.
Unfortunately, Maxx is not very careful getting in and out of the chair so I taught the boys about picnics and we had one on the floor.
When we started our visit, I tried to get Ty to count his crackers. He told me he'd do it "tomorrow". Later in the visit I pulled a hand full of coins out of my wallet and put them in a box. He readily counted to 10 with minimal prompting.
Ty was a little upset that I didn't bring the computer so he could watch the video of his group. I posted a short video of him dancing to Facebook but I don't think it has uploaded entirely as my Facebook account has been very slow these past few days. If you are one of my facebook friends and see it, please let me know it went through.
In the meantime, Ty decided that we would be "bye bye". He put on my gloves and then would run across the room as fast as he could to push me over. Then Maxx started to tell him to "get Mommy" I am beat. It's pretty hard to catch a 4 year old running at full speed after the first dozen times.
Take care,
Marcia
Saturday, February 19, 2011
Random Photos
Since I haven't posted any for a while. Here's your photo fix.
One day, Ty just started to sit "pretzel style" and hold his head like that. Sometimes he smiles and other times he smirks.
We showed the boys how to tie a tie. The boys were pleasantly surprised when they learned Randy left the tie for them.
A Lover's Triangle
Today, the boys were able to SYKPE with both my Mom and Dad. Randy missed the call due to jet lag. The boys gave their full show of saying "I love bee", blowing kisses and saying "bye bye". Maxx really worked himself up and gave quite the performance. I will need to cut their juice with some water if this keeps up.
The boys are still obsessed with the Horse Song. Yesterday, I took the laptop to the Babyhouse so the boys could see the video I found on youtube. Officially it's called "Qara Jorga". Here's the link.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MzDorXpuFvs&feature=related
Yesterday the boys danced for us and Ty is very impressive doing the arm motions. He will concentrate for the whole song and follow the dancers. Maxx likes to rock back and forth.
After the SKYPE call, I let the boys watch Qara Jorga once and also let them watch a video we took two weeks ago during a "party". The boys love to watch them and the other kids in their groups on video.
Yesterday, we were teasing Maxx because he told us one of the teenage singers was his girlfriend and "No, she's not too old" when we questioned the age difference.
Today, he pointed to a girl in Ty's class and said "I love her". We quickly learned that Ty also loves the same girl. This lead to raised voices, Ty threatening to hit Maxx and Maxx telling Ty not to shout. Trust me, it was very hard not to laugh. I told them she must be a very special little girl to have two boys love her. I then explained how you can love more than one person using our family as an example.
Other than that, we played most of our usual games. Randy left us one of his neckties and I tied it onto a mesh ball we have and Ty had a lot of fun swinging it around.
Maxx would spread out a towel and pillow to lie down but "I AM NOT TAKING A NAP" he'd announce. Instead he's pretend to talk on my cell phone. Our translator got a call on her phone and Maxx repeated everything she said into his phone.
Towards the end of the visit they looked at their photo books and talked. Maxx reminded us that Daddy will change his crib into a big boy bed. There were also discussions of where they will sit at the table, who will ride the wagon (they think Ace will) and the toy John Deere.
Marcia
The boys are still obsessed with the Horse Song. Yesterday, I took the laptop to the Babyhouse so the boys could see the video I found on youtube. Officially it's called "Qara Jorga". Here's the link.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MzDorXpuFvs&feature=related
Yesterday the boys danced for us and Ty is very impressive doing the arm motions. He will concentrate for the whole song and follow the dancers. Maxx likes to rock back and forth.
After the SKYPE call, I let the boys watch Qara Jorga once and also let them watch a video we took two weeks ago during a "party". The boys love to watch them and the other kids in their groups on video.
Yesterday, we were teasing Maxx because he told us one of the teenage singers was his girlfriend and "No, she's not too old" when we questioned the age difference.
Today, he pointed to a girl in Ty's class and said "I love her". We quickly learned that Ty also loves the same girl. This lead to raised voices, Ty threatening to hit Maxx and Maxx telling Ty not to shout. Trust me, it was very hard not to laugh. I told them she must be a very special little girl to have two boys love her. I then explained how you can love more than one person using our family as an example.
Other than that, we played most of our usual games. Randy left us one of his neckties and I tied it onto a mesh ball we have and Ty had a lot of fun swinging it around.
Maxx would spread out a towel and pillow to lie down but "I AM NOT TAKING A NAP" he'd announce. Instead he's pretend to talk on my cell phone. Our translator got a call on her phone and Maxx repeated everything she said into his phone.
Towards the end of the visit they looked at their photo books and talked. Maxx reminded us that Daddy will change his crib into a big boy bed. There were also discussions of where they will sit at the table, who will ride the wagon (they think Ace will) and the toy John Deere.
Marcia
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Doggies, Monkeys & Horses
When the translator picked up Ty he asked if Daddy was there and she told him "no". She mentioned that I was there which he settled for.
My big surprise was Ty arrived wearing shorts with tights underneath. His caregivers finally acknowledged the bonding room is warm and he doesn't need long pants and long underwear. I think he would have preferred just long pants.
I told the boys I talked to Daddy and how he is going to get our house ready for us to see him. We then went through our photobook of the house. When showing the photo of the outside of our house, I pointed to the boys' bedroom window and to my and Randy's room. Ty immediately pointed to the truck in the garage and asked if he will be able to ride in it. I had contemplated making a book of our cars, 4 wheeler and other "machina" for the boys figuring they would like that.
After the boys dumped out all the toys, Ty seemed confused and noticed that Doggie was missing. Randy took Doggie & Piggie back with him to limit how much stuff I will need to haul home. I told him that Daddy took them home so he can listen to them and think of the boys. Ty was starting to get very good at singing along with Doggie.
The other family brought their Ipad and showed all the boys an ap similar to the Mattel animal toys. So we heard a lot of "the xxx says xxx" The boys got very excited when there was a monkey and Maxx did his Monkey impersonation. Maxx has decided it's not "chunky monkey" but "monkey chunky". This was his usual defiance silliness.
Then the family played what we call "The Horse Song". On www.youtube.com, someone posted some very good productions of Kazakh music with scenery and dancers. We finally had Ty and Maxx convinced to do the horse dance for us and we lost the internet signal. Ty was rather upset so I told him I would put "The Horse Song" on my computer.
The boys ended their visit by piling up stuffed animals in the playhouse so the could try to place the toy monkey in the small window. After that was done, they'd try to knock the monkey out of the window. This was an exhausting process for both of them.
I am now settled back in a smaller room at the hotel. For some reason this room seems drier than the larger room. Although the hotel administration wouldn't approve, I am boiling water in my electric teakettle to boost the humidity in here. I told Randy I don't like waking up feeling hungover when I haven't drunk much the night before.
Take care,
Marcia
My big surprise was Ty arrived wearing shorts with tights underneath. His caregivers finally acknowledged the bonding room is warm and he doesn't need long pants and long underwear. I think he would have preferred just long pants.
I told the boys I talked to Daddy and how he is going to get our house ready for us to see him. We then went through our photobook of the house. When showing the photo of the outside of our house, I pointed to the boys' bedroom window and to my and Randy's room. Ty immediately pointed to the truck in the garage and asked if he will be able to ride in it. I had contemplated making a book of our cars, 4 wheeler and other "machina" for the boys figuring they would like that.
After the boys dumped out all the toys, Ty seemed confused and noticed that Doggie was missing. Randy took Doggie & Piggie back with him to limit how much stuff I will need to haul home. I told him that Daddy took them home so he can listen to them and think of the boys. Ty was starting to get very good at singing along with Doggie.
The other family brought their Ipad and showed all the boys an ap similar to the Mattel animal toys. So we heard a lot of "the xxx says xxx" The boys got very excited when there was a monkey and Maxx did his Monkey impersonation. Maxx has decided it's not "chunky monkey" but "monkey chunky". This was his usual defiance silliness.
Then the family played what we call "The Horse Song". On www.youtube.com, someone posted some very good productions of Kazakh music with scenery and dancers. We finally had Ty and Maxx convinced to do the horse dance for us and we lost the internet signal. Ty was rather upset so I told him I would put "The Horse Song" on my computer.
The boys ended their visit by piling up stuffed animals in the playhouse so the could try to place the toy monkey in the small window. After that was done, they'd try to knock the monkey out of the window. This was an exhausting process for both of them.
I am now settled back in a smaller room at the hotel. For some reason this room seems drier than the larger room. Although the hotel administration wouldn't approve, I am boiling water in my electric teakettle to boost the humidity in here. I told Randy I don't like waking up feeling hungover when I haven't drunk much the night before.
Take care,
Marcia
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
February 24th
will be our witness hearing. Please keep your fingers crossed that all goes according to plan.
This means we probably won't get home until early April.
Today was Randy's last visit with the boys. He told the boys at the end of the visit that he had to go home and immediately Ty asked if he was coming back and Randy said "no". Luckily, Ty seemed to understand that he will get to see Randy at our house. We frequently show him the photobook with the dolls posed at our house.
We saw the music teacher today. When she came into the music room, she saw Ty playing at the piano and he was pretending our language binder was his music. I have a red binder with common Kazakh phrases written out phonetically. The music teacher informed us that children like books with pictures and we had to explain the purpose of the book and how the boys have plenty of picture books.
Today, Maxx and I worked on some words and he told me I was wrong when I gave him English words.
Randy is on his way back to the US. He had to leave Taraz tonight as there are only flights out of here 3 times a week. He's going to spend a day in Almaty and fly out Friday AM.
Marcia
This means we probably won't get home until early April.
Today was Randy's last visit with the boys. He told the boys at the end of the visit that he had to go home and immediately Ty asked if he was coming back and Randy said "no". Luckily, Ty seemed to understand that he will get to see Randy at our house. We frequently show him the photobook with the dolls posed at our house.
We saw the music teacher today. When she came into the music room, she saw Ty playing at the piano and he was pretending our language binder was his music. I have a red binder with common Kazakh phrases written out phonetically. The music teacher informed us that children like books with pictures and we had to explain the purpose of the book and how the boys have plenty of picture books.
Today, Maxx and I worked on some words and he told me I was wrong when I gave him English words.
Randy is on his way back to the US. He had to leave Taraz tonight as there are only flights out of here 3 times a week. He's going to spend a day in Almaty and fly out Friday AM.
Marcia
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Supervised Visit - Witness Hearing
We had our supervised visit with the boys while roughly a half dozen people watched us play with the boys. We told the boys some adults were coming to watch us as a family and may ask us questions. No one had any questions for us. The babyhouse social worker explained to the judge and prosecutor the boy's backgrounds, their health status and their relationship as brothers.
As part of the visit, we were to bring new clothes for the boys. Heaven forbid the powers that be see or smell some of the clothes the children have to wear. The boys were excited to wear new things and enjoyed getting undressed and dressed. I asked Maxx if he liked his red shirt and he said he likes new clothes. Ty took a baby wipe to clean his tummy while changing shirts. It was nice to see them in age appropriate, untorn, clean clothes. Once the internet police decide to give me full access to blogger, I will try to post some photos.
Yesterday, we learned that either today or tomorrow we will learn when our witness hearing is. It will not be on the 17th as we were originally told. Let's just say I would give almost anything for a competent translator and effective coordinators right now.
We also had the treat of spending an hour in a cramped notary office while updated POA (power of attorney) documents were prepared.
Today, Randy will start the trip back to the US and I will continue to see the boys and prepare them for their new life.
Marcia
As part of the visit, we were to bring new clothes for the boys. Heaven forbid the powers that be see or smell some of the clothes the children have to wear. The boys were excited to wear new things and enjoyed getting undressed and dressed. I asked Maxx if he liked his red shirt and he said he likes new clothes. Ty took a baby wipe to clean his tummy while changing shirts. It was nice to see them in age appropriate, untorn, clean clothes. Once the internet police decide to give me full access to blogger, I will try to post some photos.
Yesterday, we learned that either today or tomorrow we will learn when our witness hearing is. It will not be on the 17th as we were originally told. Let's just say I would give almost anything for a competent translator and effective coordinators right now.
We also had the treat of spending an hour in a cramped notary office while updated POA (power of attorney) documents were prepared.
Today, Randy will start the trip back to the US and I will continue to see the boys and prepare them for their new life.
Marcia
Sunday, February 13, 2011
The Other Mommy
We've been having inside visits these last few days since it is considered too cold in the morning for the boys to go outside. We took the computer with us to UMIT and were able to Skype (talk online with live video) with my Mom and Ace. The boys like to put on little shows in front of the computer. They wanted to see Ace so Randy whistled and the boys laughed like crazy. Ace then went wild looking for him.
Towards the end of the call Maxx announced he needed Mommy to take him to the bathroom. I got up and he said "No, the other Mommy" and took Randy's hand. That reminded me when our niece was his age and at Thanksgiving one year announced "Uncle Randy and Uncle Marcia" are here.
Saturday, Randy and I took a 3 hour walk around Taraz. Towards the end of it we found a very nice restaurant and had some sushi. That was my first adventure with sushi. I told Randy it was much better than my sampling of horse gelatin.
Yesterday we set up the computers at a restaurant and started to work on our taxes. Not fun but we made a lot of progress on them. Before that we went to a children's shop to find some new toys for the boys. We have our supervised visit tomorrow and we want them to do something quiet in front of the judge and other officials. We don't know how they would feel about Ty wanting to be swung upside down by his ankles or Maxx playing "Bye Bye" and pretending to eat people.
Marcia
Towards the end of the call Maxx announced he needed Mommy to take him to the bathroom. I got up and he said "No, the other Mommy" and took Randy's hand. That reminded me when our niece was his age and at Thanksgiving one year announced "Uncle Randy and Uncle Marcia" are here.
Saturday, Randy and I took a 3 hour walk around Taraz. Towards the end of it we found a very nice restaurant and had some sushi. That was my first adventure with sushi. I told Randy it was much better than my sampling of horse gelatin.
Yesterday we set up the computers at a restaurant and started to work on our taxes. Not fun but we made a lot of progress on them. Before that we went to a children's shop to find some new toys for the boys. We have our supervised visit tomorrow and we want them to do something quiet in front of the judge and other officials. We don't know how they would feel about Ty wanting to be swung upside down by his ankles or Maxx playing "Bye Bye" and pretending to eat people.
Marcia
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Mullet Boy & Razor Boy
I think I have already commented about Ty's hair. The "stylist" is leaving the back grow although she shaved everything else except the bangs. I told Randy, I may cut the back on my own when we get custody of him.
Today, Maxx arrived with a new haircut. His head was also shaved but there is a sideways V shaved on one side of his head and it looks likes a T on the other side.
We took them outside for the first time since April. Ty is very good at climbing on the equipment. Maxx still lacks a bit of coordination but gives it a try.
We also tried to teach them "stop" and "go" by walking together and Randy would decide when we could stop and go. They did well while we were holding hands but not too well when they were "free". We'll work on that some more.
Our driver was cleaning his car but he said the boys could go inside it. Maxx wasn't interested but Ty was and the first thing he did was play with the radio buttons. Randy put a seatbelt on him and he didn't seem to mind.
Marcia
Today, Maxx arrived with a new haircut. His head was also shaved but there is a sideways V shaved on one side of his head and it looks likes a T on the other side.
We took them outside for the first time since April. Ty is very good at climbing on the equipment. Maxx still lacks a bit of coordination but gives it a try.
We also tried to teach them "stop" and "go" by walking together and Randy would decide when we could stop and go. They did well while we were holding hands but not too well when they were "free". We'll work on that some more.
Our driver was cleaning his car but he said the boys could go inside it. Maxx wasn't interested but Ty was and the first thing he did was play with the radio buttons. Randy put a seatbelt on him and he didn't seem to mind.
Marcia
Court and Other Updates
I am sorry for the delay in posting. Yesterday, immediately after court we went to the babyhouse to see the boys. After that we were completely exhausted.
Then blogger decided not to open this morning.
Court was uneventful. Most of the questions were the same as before. It seemed like a few of the participants were more engaged this time. At our last hearing, one person was texting during our testimony and someone else got a phone call.
The babyhouse director had to talk about the kids and commented how they have been heard speaking English in their groups. I'm sure pretty soon, every kid at Unit will understand "potty please". When we asked Ty about sharing his English, he denied it.
We were also told that Ty plays well with other kids but can be stubborn. That was not a big surprise. And everyone that knows us, is laughing about the irony of us having a stubborn child.
Yesterday, Randy had a balloon and Ty wanted it but wouldn't say "please" and started to kick something in anger. Maxx ran up to Randy, gave him his balloon and said "please". Ty immediately ran over to say "please" and claim his balloon. I guess sometimes sibling rivalry works.
We will have our supervised visit on next Tuesday and our witness hearing is scheduled for next Thursday. If that goes well (meaning the witnesses show up) we will get a decision shortly thereafter.
The boys were amazed by Randy's necktie yesterday. It became a snake and a tug of war rope. Randy also had a copy of "The Economist" with him that the boys liked paging through.
Take care,
Marcia
Then blogger decided not to open this morning.
Court was uneventful. Most of the questions were the same as before. It seemed like a few of the participants were more engaged this time. At our last hearing, one person was texting during our testimony and someone else got a phone call.
The babyhouse director had to talk about the kids and commented how they have been heard speaking English in their groups. I'm sure pretty soon, every kid at Unit will understand "potty please". When we asked Ty about sharing his English, he denied it.
We were also told that Ty plays well with other kids but can be stubborn. That was not a big surprise. And everyone that knows us, is laughing about the irony of us having a stubborn child.
Yesterday, Randy had a balloon and Ty wanted it but wouldn't say "please" and started to kick something in anger. Maxx ran up to Randy, gave him his balloon and said "please". Ty immediately ran over to say "please" and claim his balloon. I guess sometimes sibling rivalry works.
We will have our supervised visit on next Tuesday and our witness hearing is scheduled for next Thursday. If that goes well (meaning the witnesses show up) we will get a decision shortly thereafter.
The boys were amazed by Randy's necktie yesterday. It became a snake and a tug of war rope. Randy also had a copy of "The Economist" with him that the boys liked paging through.
Take care,
Marcia
Monday, February 7, 2011
First Visit with Daddy
The boys were very happy to see Randy. They first looked at Randy and then ran for their snacks. Then the translator asked if they were going to say hello and Ty immediately ran over for hugs and to be picked up. After a few minutes he was ready to let Maxx have his turn. Maxx ran over right away. This was impressive as usually Maxx holds back a little.
Ty definitely was Daddy's boy and did not want Maxx to get too much of Dad's attention. Both boys demonstrated they could count to 3 so Randy got them to 4.
Maxx, of course, had to have multiple bathroom trips. When we decided Randy would take him, Ty announced he also needed to go. So I supervised one boy in the hall while Randy took the other inside. I figured Randy didn't need to get the light show on his first day.
Marcia
Sunday, February 6, 2011
Tantrum Central
I brought the computer today as I wanted to try Skyping my parents. We couldn't get a connection but the boys enjoyed playing with the computer. I let them each make a little movie of themselves and they loved watching and listening to themselves.
Maxx built a little room where he lined up 4 chairs and then ordered me to help him line up 6 more. Maxx then moved our things into the little room.
In the meantime, something bothered Ty and he announced he was going to tear down the room and slapped Maxx across the face. Maxx was pretty good about it but Ty definitely knew that he was in the wrong. He refused to apologize and then started a tantrum. Shoes flew and he'd periodically scream. We asked him if he wanted to go back to his group and he didn't. He told me I needed to be punished (I wanted to say the Kazakh judicial system already has). He then went across the room to pout. After a few minutes I asked him if he wanted to play with me and Maxx and it was like nothing had happened.
The boys like my passport as there are pictures on the visa pages. I told them they will get a passport but it will have their photos and they will say Ty Almat Newton and Maxx Rustam Newton. I told them "Newton" is Daddy's name. Maxx tried to say "Newton" but it sounded Chinese. Then Maxx took the passport and grabbed a marker. I took the passport back and he had a fit. It was similar to Ty's and after a few minutes he wanted to climb the cube and jump off like Ty was.
Tomorrow we will have an afternoon visit. They boys still don't know that Randy will be there to see them. I can't wait for them to all see each other again.
Marcia
Maxx built a little room where he lined up 4 chairs and then ordered me to help him line up 6 more. Maxx then moved our things into the little room.
In the meantime, something bothered Ty and he announced he was going to tear down the room and slapped Maxx across the face. Maxx was pretty good about it but Ty definitely knew that he was in the wrong. He refused to apologize and then started a tantrum. Shoes flew and he'd periodically scream. We asked him if he wanted to go back to his group and he didn't. He told me I needed to be punished (I wanted to say the Kazakh judicial system already has). He then went across the room to pout. After a few minutes I asked him if he wanted to play with me and Maxx and it was like nothing had happened.
The boys like my passport as there are pictures on the visa pages. I told them they will get a passport but it will have their photos and they will say Ty Almat Newton and Maxx Rustam Newton. I told them "Newton" is Daddy's name. Maxx tried to say "Newton" but it sounded Chinese. Then Maxx took the passport and grabbed a marker. I took the passport back and he had a fit. It was similar to Ty's and after a few minutes he wanted to climb the cube and jump off like Ty was.
Tomorrow we will have an afternoon visit. They boys still don't know that Randy will be there to see them. I can't wait for them to all see each other again.
Marcia
Saturday, February 5, 2011
Shake your Booty
Our visit got off to a shaky start. Ty was in a very bad mood. Probably the worst I have ever seen him. He grunted at some playdough and when I asked him to say "please" and he refused. He told the translator he had a quarrel with another kid in his group and didn't want to talk to or play with us. He proceeded to sulk in a corner and grunt loudly periodically. Once in a while, we'd try to engage him but he was not interested.
Then his music teacher arrived and we had to quickly move ourselves into a corner of the room and make a barricade of chairs so we wouldn't interrupt the music lesson.
It turned out it was Ty's group so Ty had to practice for an upcoming recital. Maxx and I took a trip to the bathroom and when we returned we were still too much of a distraction so I took Maxx for a walk around the main floor of the babyhouse. We walked a few laps, looked at photos on the walls and periodically we'd stand outside the music room where we could hear the kids singing.
We decided to dance in the hallway. Maxx enjoys wiggling his butt so I taught him "shake, shake shake...shake, shake, shake.. shake your booty". I also tried to teach him a polka step and a box step. He understood a bit of the polka but with the box step he'd just spread his legs further and further apart. He thought that was funny and the babyhouse workers who saw us dancing in the hallway were also highly amused. They also liked when I would have Maxx wave "hello" to them.
Ty and the translator didn't have as much fun. The translator said all the kids wanted to check out the toys and asked if the playdough was candy. Ty kept asking where Maxx and I went.
After the class was over, we had a regular visit. Ty was back in good spirits and frequently asked to be held upside down by his ankles. He and Maxx took turns pushing each other in a toy truck and playing the piano. We also had to pretend the spoon was a dombrey (Kazakh style guitar) and play it.
One more visit before they see Randy. I think they are ready.
Marcia
Then his music teacher arrived and we had to quickly move ourselves into a corner of the room and make a barricade of chairs so we wouldn't interrupt the music lesson.
It turned out it was Ty's group so Ty had to practice for an upcoming recital. Maxx and I took a trip to the bathroom and when we returned we were still too much of a distraction so I took Maxx for a walk around the main floor of the babyhouse. We walked a few laps, looked at photos on the walls and periodically we'd stand outside the music room where we could hear the kids singing.
We decided to dance in the hallway. Maxx enjoys wiggling his butt so I taught him "shake, shake shake...shake, shake, shake.. shake your booty". I also tried to teach him a polka step and a box step. He understood a bit of the polka but with the box step he'd just spread his legs further and further apart. He thought that was funny and the babyhouse workers who saw us dancing in the hallway were also highly amused. They also liked when I would have Maxx wave "hello" to them.
Ty and the translator didn't have as much fun. The translator said all the kids wanted to check out the toys and asked if the playdough was candy. Ty kept asking where Maxx and I went.
After the class was over, we had a regular visit. Ty was back in good spirits and frequently asked to be held upside down by his ankles. He and Maxx took turns pushing each other in a toy truck and playing the piano. We also had to pretend the spoon was a dombrey (Kazakh style guitar) and play it.
One more visit before they see Randy. I think they are ready.
Marcia
Friday, February 4, 2011
More Photos
Here are some photos from the end of yesterday's visit. For a while Ty was pretending the spoon was a guitar. As he played this "guitar" he would sing and dance.
The photo of Maxx is while he is "bye-bye" You can see the glove on his right and and the black eye.
If It Doesn't Change, It Will Stay the Same
For anyone who wonders why I brought a half bottle of ibuprofen with me to Taraz, the above comment is a prime example. When the ibuprofen doesn't work, there is all sorts of vodka to be had.
In the car yesterday, our Coordinator told me she would let me know what time our court date is next week. I commented "The judge said it was at 2:00PM. Is that likely to change?" The above quote is what I was told. Instead of going into it further I decided someone will let us know when we need to be at the courthouse looking like respectable parents.
We still had some fallout from Maxx's black eye. His doctor complained she should have been notified when Maxx fell the 2 1/2 feet from his chair to the floor. Our coordinator supported my comments that his eyeball wasn't hurt and there was not a sign of a concussion. As she put it "kids fall". We still had to go to the pharmacy to buy an ointment for his eye (a whopping $2.75). I am wondering to myself, "Gee, where does the ointment come from when the kids fall when they are under the care of the babyhouse staff?" I know several instances where I have noticed incidental bumps and bruises on the boys.
Ty is still recovering from his bug. He doesn't easily wake up from his naps so these past two days I had a little one on one time with Maxx so Ty gets a little more sleep. I have been trying to teach the boys to say "nummy, nummy in the tummy" when they eat. Today, Maxx started to say it. He gave me a spoonful of yogurt and said it to me.
Maxx is starting to regain some of his braveness as far as climbing onto things. Today, he scared the daylights out of me as he tried to stand on a toy truck and play the piano at the same time. He almost went face first into the piano. Later, he fell of the cube. No injuries but he was a little scared.
Speaking of the cube, today the boys decided they are to say "one, two, bee" as they jump off the cube and I swing them around the room.
Ty found my gloves in my coat pocket and decided he should wear them and pretend he was "bye-bye". "Bye-bye" is a boogeyman type creature that small children are afraid of. While wearing the gloves, the boys would run to me as fast as they could while yelling as loud as they could and then knock me over. It was funny to see them contort their faces when they were the monster. They will sleep well tonight.
Speaking of which it is almost time for me to call it a night.
Marcia
In the car yesterday, our Coordinator told me she would let me know what time our court date is next week. I commented "The judge said it was at 2:00PM. Is that likely to change?" The above quote is what I was told. Instead of going into it further I decided someone will let us know when we need to be at the courthouse looking like respectable parents.
We still had some fallout from Maxx's black eye. His doctor complained she should have been notified when Maxx fell the 2 1/2 feet from his chair to the floor. Our coordinator supported my comments that his eyeball wasn't hurt and there was not a sign of a concussion. As she put it "kids fall". We still had to go to the pharmacy to buy an ointment for his eye (a whopping $2.75). I am wondering to myself, "Gee, where does the ointment come from when the kids fall when they are under the care of the babyhouse staff?" I know several instances where I have noticed incidental bumps and bruises on the boys.
Ty is still recovering from his bug. He doesn't easily wake up from his naps so these past two days I had a little one on one time with Maxx so Ty gets a little more sleep. I have been trying to teach the boys to say "nummy, nummy in the tummy" when they eat. Today, Maxx started to say it. He gave me a spoonful of yogurt and said it to me.
Maxx is starting to regain some of his braveness as far as climbing onto things. Today, he scared the daylights out of me as he tried to stand on a toy truck and play the piano at the same time. He almost went face first into the piano. Later, he fell of the cube. No injuries but he was a little scared.
Speaking of the cube, today the boys decided they are to say "one, two, bee" as they jump off the cube and I swing them around the room.
Ty found my gloves in my coat pocket and decided he should wear them and pretend he was "bye-bye". "Bye-bye" is a boogeyman type creature that small children are afraid of. While wearing the gloves, the boys would run to me as fast as they could while yelling as loud as they could and then knock me over. It was funny to see them contort their faces when they were the monster. They will sleep well tonight.
Speaking of which it is almost time for me to call it a night.
Marcia
Wednesday, February 2, 2011
Punishment
Ty went through a little phase today where he wanted to "punish". At first he wanted to punish Maxx for being "naughty" except Maxx was very good today. Then he wanted to punish me but wouldn't say why (I suspect it was because I didn't bring M&Ms like I did yesterday). We asked him if he thought the doctor who gives him the shots should be punished and he said "yes". That we could understand. Then he wanted to punish the trash bag and some toys.
He and Maxx like to see the contents of my security wallet. Ty was concerned as Maxx took the debit card and credit cards so I gave him my passport. Before I did, I removed the immigration card which is a small piece of paper that I must keep with the passport during my stay. Ty wanted the immigration card and I said "no because if I lose it the police will punish me". Ty has seen my passport a lot but today when he looked at my photo he said "that's not Mommy". I guess I am in a lot of trouble if anyone finds out.
Ty and Maxx have different doctors that oversee their care. Today, I was told Maxx's MD was very upset that I didn't contact her when Maxx fell off the chair 2 days ago and got the black eye. I had to reiterate that he didn't have any marks at first so I thought he was only scared from the fall, when I could see the mark on the eyelid his eyeball was and still is fine, he was back to normal within 10 minutes and it was obvious he didn't have a concussion. Now I am supposed to buy "creme" to be put on his eyelid. Of course I will, but I am wondering how they are going to put creme that close to his eyeball and not irritate his eye. Oh wait, I am not supposed to ask such questions.
Today, I picked up Ty by his ankles and swung him around. He thought that was the greatest. I asked Maxx if he wanted to do it and he was all excited until he was upside down. He panicked and started to cry. Ty thought that was very funny and said he would play the game with me. I told Maxx there are a lot of other games we can play. I'm sure within a week, he'll be wanting to try again.
I mentioned to Randy both boys are starting to express themselves a bit more. Sometimes it's naughty and other times it's creative.
Maxx was putting the spoons into a toy truck and I asked him to make sure we got them when we packed up for the day. He asked "why?" and I said so I can wash them. He wanted to know why I couldn't wash them at the babyhouse. I mentioned I have soap and a rag at the hotel.
Ty announced he was going to get the plastic spoons out of my bag and break them. I said "but then you don't have spoons to eat yogurt" To which he said "I will DRINK my yogurt".
For all of you who wished for us children that would challenge us, I think your wish (ok and ours) is coming true.
Marcia
He and Maxx like to see the contents of my security wallet. Ty was concerned as Maxx took the debit card and credit cards so I gave him my passport. Before I did, I removed the immigration card which is a small piece of paper that I must keep with the passport during my stay. Ty wanted the immigration card and I said "no because if I lose it the police will punish me". Ty has seen my passport a lot but today when he looked at my photo he said "that's not Mommy". I guess I am in a lot of trouble if anyone finds out.
Ty and Maxx have different doctors that oversee their care. Today, I was told Maxx's MD was very upset that I didn't contact her when Maxx fell off the chair 2 days ago and got the black eye. I had to reiterate that he didn't have any marks at first so I thought he was only scared from the fall, when I could see the mark on the eyelid his eyeball was and still is fine, he was back to normal within 10 minutes and it was obvious he didn't have a concussion. Now I am supposed to buy "creme" to be put on his eyelid. Of course I will, but I am wondering how they are going to put creme that close to his eyeball and not irritate his eye. Oh wait, I am not supposed to ask such questions.
Today, I picked up Ty by his ankles and swung him around. He thought that was the greatest. I asked Maxx if he wanted to do it and he was all excited until he was upside down. He panicked and started to cry. Ty thought that was very funny and said he would play the game with me. I told Maxx there are a lot of other games we can play. I'm sure within a week, he'll be wanting to try again.
I mentioned to Randy both boys are starting to express themselves a bit more. Sometimes it's naughty and other times it's creative.
Maxx was putting the spoons into a toy truck and I asked him to make sure we got them when we packed up for the day. He asked "why?" and I said so I can wash them. He wanted to know why I couldn't wash them at the babyhouse. I mentioned I have soap and a rag at the hotel.
Ty announced he was going to get the plastic spoons out of my bag and break them. I said "but then you don't have spoons to eat yogurt" To which he said "I will DRINK my yogurt".
For all of you who wished for us children that would challenge us, I think your wish (ok and ours) is coming true.
Marcia
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
Payback
After a few visits where things were less than perfect, I had a visit with some very rewarding moments.
Ty came to see us a little late as he had problems awakening from his nap. This was fine as he was very happy and energetic when he met us. Maxx was very good about waiting for their snack.
Both boys were very quiet today. They were not interested in the piano or a lot of loud activities. That was nice as we were able to listen to them talk to us and each other.
Maxx was examining his sippy cup and found the rubber stopper that makes the cup spillproof. Ty had to check out his cup and found the stopper to which he said "Who did this? They must stop it!" I told him I put the stopper in the cups otherwise all the juice will spill out before I see them. I don't know if they bought that argument so I think I will just need to make sure I tighten the lids on the cups so the boys can't open them on me.
Ty moved a stuffed animal and touched the curtains. Touching the curtains is a major offense at the babyhouse so the translator and I both told Ty to stop. Maxx then announced to Ty "don't touch the curtains". Ty wandered off to something else and Maxx walked up to the curtains and proudly announced "I am touching the curtains".
Maxx had to take 4 bathroom trips during our 2 hour visit. During our 2nd trip, the translator and Ty had a phone conversation where Ty talked about getting his injections and "Mommy took Rustam to the toilet".
The boys were very much into Playdough today. They would try to take it from each other. After Maxx took some from Ty, Ty said "I will get it back when you go to the toilet".Maxx was putting the PD into a plastic bag. After he emptied the bag he threw it on the floor. Immediately, Ty asked me for the bag and I gave it to him. He announced "Mommy gave me the bag" and pranced around with it while Maxx chased him saying "Mommy, mommy, mommy". I guess I need to get a referee whistle soon.
Ty was struggling to open a PD can and I offered to help and he said "I don't need Mommy". I asked "Do you need a Mommy?" He thought for a half minute and said "I need a Mommy" I then said "Good, because I need Almat".
We will teach the boys their English names closer to their departure from the babyhouse.
When it was time to pick up at the end of the visit, Maxx announced he needed to use the toilet. I worked on making it a quick trip so we could get back to the music room for our goodbyes. As we left the bathroom, we saw Ty running down the hall as fast as he could and heard the translator calling him. Apparently, he darted out of the room shortly after we left. I don't know if that was a reaction from a few days ago when he refused to leave so Maxx left without him.
Only 5 more visits before the boys see Randy again. It will be so much fun to see their reactions.
Marcia
Ty came to see us a little late as he had problems awakening from his nap. This was fine as he was very happy and energetic when he met us. Maxx was very good about waiting for their snack.
Both boys were very quiet today. They were not interested in the piano or a lot of loud activities. That was nice as we were able to listen to them talk to us and each other.
Maxx was examining his sippy cup and found the rubber stopper that makes the cup spillproof. Ty had to check out his cup and found the stopper to which he said "Who did this? They must stop it!" I told him I put the stopper in the cups otherwise all the juice will spill out before I see them. I don't know if they bought that argument so I think I will just need to make sure I tighten the lids on the cups so the boys can't open them on me.
Ty moved a stuffed animal and touched the curtains. Touching the curtains is a major offense at the babyhouse so the translator and I both told Ty to stop. Maxx then announced to Ty "don't touch the curtains". Ty wandered off to something else and Maxx walked up to the curtains and proudly announced "I am touching the curtains".
Maxx had to take 4 bathroom trips during our 2 hour visit. During our 2nd trip, the translator and Ty had a phone conversation where Ty talked about getting his injections and "Mommy took Rustam to the toilet".
The boys were very much into Playdough today. They would try to take it from each other. After Maxx took some from Ty, Ty said "I will get it back when you go to the toilet".Maxx was putting the PD into a plastic bag. After he emptied the bag he threw it on the floor. Immediately, Ty asked me for the bag and I gave it to him. He announced "Mommy gave me the bag" and pranced around with it while Maxx chased him saying "Mommy, mommy, mommy". I guess I need to get a referee whistle soon.
Ty was struggling to open a PD can and I offered to help and he said "I don't need Mommy". I asked "Do you need a Mommy?" He thought for a half minute and said "I need a Mommy" I then said "Good, because I need Almat".
We will teach the boys their English names closer to their departure from the babyhouse.
When it was time to pick up at the end of the visit, Maxx announced he needed to use the toilet. I worked on making it a quick trip so we could get back to the music room for our goodbyes. As we left the bathroom, we saw Ty running down the hall as fast as he could and heard the translator calling him. Apparently, he darted out of the room shortly after we left. I don't know if that was a reaction from a few days ago when he refused to leave so Maxx left without him.
Only 5 more visits before the boys see Randy again. It will be so much fun to see their reactions.
Marcia
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